Timely Woman: Be Bold

Timely Woman: Be Bold: Telling people how you truly feel isn't easy. But you must practice the art of doing it. Lying to yourself is like a cancer. It eats yo...

Be Bold

Telling people how you truly feel isn't easy. But you must practice the art of doing it. Lying to yourself is like a cancer. It eats you up. Many people do well in covering up their emotions, some have the excuse that, they don't want to offend anyone. Now seriously, when has being nice to everybody ever helped? People will keep on doing what they do if they don't know how you feel about. If you in turn can't say how you feel about a particular situation or action, you'll gradually be consumed. From the onset, you will deceive yourself and say, "Oh, he'll quit with time". Trust me, it doesn't work that way, until you voice out your feelings, it is most likely he won't quit. Imagine an apple falls to the ground. The moment it falls, there might not be a mark on the apple. But with time, the part that fell on the ground will gradually rot and if that part is not taken off, it affects the whole fruit.

So learn to be bold. Say it. Free your conscience. And move on!