THE OTHER WOMAN

"The other woman" what does it mean? Well, it simply refers to the lover of a married man or a similarly attached man. Amazingly it's been in existence for several years. The current generation, however see it as fashion. Young ladies of today have more pleasure in holding on to men who are attached to other women. My question is, how does it feel when you can't have access to him anytime you want to? How does it feel smiling at your other woman and saying in your head "I am doing your husband"? How does it feel knowing that you could one day be in the same position as the woman whose husband you are stealing?  Interestingly, most of these women get jealous when the man flirts with other women. "Oh yeah" What were you thinking when he managed to flirt with you while he still had a wife? This man wakes up every morning in the arms of his wife, looks her in the eye and deceives her only to be with you. Some of these men go to the extent of abandoning their responsibilities at home. He's no more the caring husband he was, the kids don't even feel his presence at home. On the contrary, some men can also play it well. You might never be able to tell the difference. They are damn smart! The vacations are on point, His presence at home is felt, He's even more caring a husband than he ever used to be, but all along, there is another woman. Some are of the argument that these men have wives who are not playing their roles well and thus are left with no other choice than to engage in adultery. Is this enough reason to sell ones' soul to the devil? Is it enough reason to go back on your marriage vows you made in the presence of the Lord? Certainly, it is not. Until men see how serious extra marital affair is, the whole talk on it will just be fruitless.

As the other woman,have you ever thought of having your own man? A man to whom you will always be "numero uno"? Or just maybe, you are thinking you can one day get to keep this man all to yourself? "Funny". Have you ever asked yourself why some of these married men will never divorce their wives even if given the opportunity to? Well, it's simple....You just cannot replace their wives. They don't see you as wife material, because being a wife means you are versatile and you can function in lots of areas at the same time. The only place you  can function well, is on the bed. Then after that he gets you some few cedis/dollars in his eyes but to you it's a whole lot of cash. Being the other woman has being in  existence since time immemorial, so what is my problem? Some may say. Well my problem is, in the past, women were ashamed to be called the other women. It was done discreetly. But today, a lady can walk arm in arm with a married man to an event. It is sad to think that women who are supposed to be the very ones watching each others back are their own enemies. Whatever happened to conscience?whatever happened to integrity?

I don't believe anyone has any tangible reason for being "the other woman". If you do, let me hear it and let's see if it is worth it.

Don't be reduced to being "the other woman" Work at having your own man.

Be Smart!!
Be a timely woman!